Hello, summer! The days get longer and lazier, and something about that bright, hot sun just makes you giddy.
You twirl out the door. The extra bounce in your step lands you right in the arms of the ever elusive PERFECT man.
Your eyes meet, there are fireworks worthy of the Fourth of July, and the excitement has you spinning faster than giant, half-priced tropical drinks.
Eight weeks of rooftop restaurants, beaches, and barbecues later, and suddenly the heat dies down.
As the relationship fizzles, you look for ways to get his attention again. Or you decide to move on, but how can you get a guy to notice you? Not just any guy, but the right guy this time?
Perhaps you’re already in a committed relationship, fighting what feels like the exact same fight all the time. Your exhausted, weary heart doesn’t even notice the sunshine and rainbows and summer magic. And you, too, are asking, “How can I get his attention? Can we be happy again?”
Or maybe you’re like me. You’ve moved on from a failed relationship to living awesomely single, loving yourself.
But you still don’t know what you really want from another person, except that if there’s a next time, it can’t be like the last time. (If I’m ever with another man, I certainly don’t want it to be anything like my ex-marriage!)
Whether you’re single, dating, or married, relationship coach Rori Raye has some life-changing tips for you. Starting with changing the things about you that make every relationship turn cold and gray.
You’re thinking, why do I have to do all the work?
It feels unnatural and difficult to take some blame and make dramatic changes. But like they say, doing the same thing again and again expecting different results is the definition of insanity. Nothing we do works, yet we keep doing it. The relationship dissolves around us as we slowly go crazy.
There IS a solution: stop, think, change, resume love-life.
Visualization exercises, steps to avoiding conflict, and even specific dos and don’ts in your conversations, are all spelled out in Rori Raye’s comprehensive ebook Have The Relationship You Want. You’ll find all the tools you need to change the way you approach a relationship, including how to get a man’s attention and keep it.
Starting from a point of looking inward, you’ll see what kind of a person you are in a relationship when you follow the steps outlined in this book. You can only control yourself, no one else, so you’ll decide what really matters to you, letting everything else go.
To learn more tricks to having the relationship you want, you can also subscribe to Rori’s free e-newsletter. You’ll discover a whole new way to relate to a man – from the moment you meet him, all the way through commitment and marriage.
You can finally have the secure, loving, summer fling turned endless real thing you’ve always wanted!
Disclosure: This post was sponsored by Rori Raye. No request to share any particular point of view was made. All descriptions of flighty summer flings and lasting romances are a creation of my own rom-com-ridden, Holly-Bollywood addled brain.